Archive for December, 2014



As we continue to move toward the holiday Christmas season at what seems to be lightning speed, I’m reminded of the importance of gratitude. Everyone is so busy doing, buying, visiting, stressing, that it’s easy to forget to be grateful for the small every day things. We all know and hear about how important it is to make time for family and friends if we are in a position to do so during this holiday season, but what about being grateful for so many of the other blessings we all have?


I’m talking about being grateful for the beauty of nature that surrounds us, the snow frosting trees and ground, the brilliance of sunshine, the abundance of love in our lives, the food we eat, the safety and warmth of our homes, and so on. Perhaps even more important is when we’re struggling with the things we don’t have at Christmas; family who live far away, loss of someone close to us, a lack of social and familial support, job losses, not enough money, and so on.


Well known speaker and vulnerability expert, Brené  Brown talks about how gratitude is more than just an attitude. It’s something we can actively choose to cultivate and bring into our lives. It’s helpful to remind ourselves that being grateful for what we have encourages positive thinking. It gives us hope that tomorrow will be easier, and that even just having air to breathe into our lungs is something to be grateful for. I keep hearing how this particular season can be one of the most difficult and stressful for many people. That saddens me, because it means that too many people still don’t get it. I’m not a professional in the mental health area, and I don’t mean to make light of people who struggle with clinical depression or suicidal ideation, so please don’t take me wrong. I just can’t help but think that at least some of it means these people can’t see beyond today. It means they’ve stopped looking at the beauty of the world that surrounds them, have stopped focusing on what they do have, and have turned their eyes inward and found a dark, black space. No wonder they’re despairing. If I could wish for one thing this Christmas, it would be that every person could look around them and be grateful for the beauty of nature and life and hold it close, even just for a moment. It doesn’t make everything right, but maybe it would make the next moment a little more bearable. Again, this is perhaps just my simplistic view of the world.


Cultivate what you wish to grow in your life

Cultivate what you wish to grow in your life

But again, cultivating gratitude means more than just saying the words, it means really feeling it. It means taking time to think about what bounties we have and truly being grateful for them. It means looking around ourselves and within our own bodies and being grateful for the smallest blessings, and the big ones. It means taking the time to really think about what you have to be grateful for, then saying aloud, “I am grateful for…”, and holding that thought for a moment before continuing on with your day, your meal, whatever.


No matter what’s happening in your life this holiday season, try to take a moment or two, or as many as you like, and think about the things you are grateful for. Speak them, count them, re-visit them as often as you need to, and hold them close whenever stress, anger, despair, or fear begin to crowd your world. And breathe. And smile. And dream. Even when you don’t want to.


However you celebrate this season, may you find some measure of joy and gratitude!

Embrace Life!

Embrace Life!


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Office For One

Office For One






Office For One: The Sole Proprietor’s Survival Guide, by Christina Hamlett is the perfect read for anyone either currently in business for themselves, or even thinking about it! Chock full of useful information, tips, and solid business sense, this book gives the reader what he/she is looking for; real, hands-on, useable advice about starting, operating, and growing a sole proprietor business. Whether a woman who decides to work from home while caring for children, writers who toil in solitude to create something worth reading, or the man who yearns to run his own business his own way, Office For One gives the how-tos, along with reminders of the inherent pluses and minuses of doing so. Far from a boring business manual, this book enlightens and pours many lifetimes of experience into its pages. A must read for Solopreneurs!

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This was such a fun, great interview with author/artist Lisa Redfern! If you enjoyed this post, please share. Thank you!

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What a pleasure it has been to interview and get to know Lisa Marie Redfern, author of the Hayleeetrilogy and Haylee and the Traveler’s Stone (print book soon to be released). Not only is she a wonderful writer, but her talent doesn’t stop there. As an accomplished artist, photographer, and business woman, Lisa stretches the boundaries of her art and her way with words/imagery, enticing followers to dip their toes into the rippling waters of imagination.

Interviewer: Debbie McClure


Q: Books, movies and even television shows these days are delivering a steady stream of plots that involve the undead, the unreal, and the wickedly supernatural. In your opinion, what accounts for society’s longstanding fascination with characters that are not completely human?

A: A cultural theme occurs when lots of people have similar ideas and begin exploring it in depth. We take our collective temperature…

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